God And His Word - A Question And Answer Approach To Understanding The Bible

produced by such a marriage will be held steady within the sanctifying influence of the covenant boundaries. 3. WHAT PREPARATION DOES GOD REQUIRE OF THOSE ENTERING MARRIAGE? Since is a Divine institution, couple involved should properly begin with rightful betrothal or engagement. This should be done prayerfully, soberly and with purity of body and soul to insure compatibility. Institution of Marriage, Genesis 2:18-24; a wife for Isaac, Genesis 24:12. Although Joseph and Mary were only engaged, they were considered husband and wife. Matthew 1:19, 20, 24. 4. ENGAGED COUPLES SHOULD SEEK COMPATIBILITY OF SPIRIT AND EMOTION. Too many marriages are based on the Hollywood myth that physical satisfaction is paramount. Actually marriage involves more than sex. God also made men and women with spiritual, mental and emotional functions and needs. When a pre-marital relationship starts on the level of sexual fulfillment and attempts to move upward to spiritual fulfillment, it is predestined to trouble. However, if an engaged couple will concentrate first on establishing their spiritual and emotional compatibility, they can then come to a satisfying physical fulfillment in proper marriage. 5. WHEN ARE TWO PEOPLE CONSIDERED COMPATIBLE IN MARRIAGE? Two people are compatible in marriage when they can live together in harmony and peace with God's blessing. "God hath called us to peace." 1 Corinthians 7:15.

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